Why don’t guys approach me at the club/bar?
January 10th, 2009 Posted by: admin
ok well i have a boyfriend and we usually go to the club together but often my boyfriend dosent seem to wanna get into the dancing with me and just have fun and just go all out and just let go and dance your heart out.
so i asked if i could dance with other guys he said it was ok…. so i kinda backed away from him a bit to see if i could get any guys to ask me to dance……nope nothing…. and i as well came with my other guy roommate and his friend krista, but the whole time krista had like maybe 6 guys ask her to dance and talk to her…… it was kinda lame when i had this random guy come up to me and and ask if my friend would dance with them…….. i just rolled my eyes….
and i just met krista so shes kinda not my friend ……
i really want to dance with other people other then my boyfriend, cuz i would stay on the dance floor all night and dance all night long…..
i just don’t understand how she dose it… shes about a 5”1 girl very slim sorta attractive and dirtyish blonde hair….. but i’m about 5”4 average and long brown hair and green eyes
so i asked if i could dance with other guys he said it was ok…. so i kinda backed away from him a bit to see if i could get any guys to ask me to dance……nope nothing…. and i as well came with my other guy roommate and his friend krista, but the whole time krista had like maybe 6 guys ask her to dance and talk to her…… it was kinda lame when i had this random guy come up to me and and ask if my friend would dance with them…….. i just rolled my eyes….
and i just met krista so shes kinda not my friend ……
i really want to dance with other people other then my boyfriend, cuz i would stay on the dance floor all night and dance all night long…..
i just don’t understand how she dose it… shes about a 5”1 girl very slim sorta attractive and dirtyish blonde hair….. but i’m about 5”4 average and long brown hair and green eyes
do guys ask the girls who look easy to dance with or what, cuz i’ve just gotton into the bar/club scene and i have no clue what i am doing wrong….
i just want to dance with other guys nothing else…..
i’ve been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 5 months… so we trust eachother…
helpppp
By: Katlin H
Tags: Random Guy, Roommate, Whole Time
January 14th, 2009 at 14:56
sounds great
January 16th, 2009 at 13:27
please don’t take this as offensive, but your chubby cheeks make you look like a little girl tying to be grown.
you’re pretty, you aren’t gorgeous, and at clubs and stuff they always ask the really hot girls, the sophisticated looking ones. Here is a test, if you can’t go to Washington D.C. then try this with any big city’s ghetto… take a walk in the ghetto, just stroll down the street in nothing fancy just maybe flip flops, jeans and a t shirt. If nobody will leave you alone, including men old enough to be your grandpa, and every lady around is obviously hating on you, you’re hot. If they ask what your friend’s name is or just look the other way, chances are, you’re nothing special. Sorry 
January 16th, 2009 at 21:59
Eh…. Well, guys really only go for the really hot ones. And…. I don’t think you really cut the gorgeous thing. Sorry! :]
January 20th, 2009 at 07:47
I think it has to do with personality more than looks. Guys are desperated and do not need a 10 out of 10 *****.
I think you should make more eye contact at guys and smile at them and they will approach you…
trust me do this and you will have guys.. Also if you wear more revealing clothes guys will be all over you…